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Sex On First Date...Relationship Worthy or Not???
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PostPosted: Mon Mar 19, 2007 3:56 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

If people go out in town to fish out, and it will mostly be men, then having sex with a first date will not be a problem, and as mentioned before it takes 2, but it is always the man who initiate to have sex on first date.
It depend on chemistry, maybe they do connect well, and rather it will be a contact who will develop into a real relationship, is soemthing for time to decide and the two involved.
Wether or not you will marry a woman shouldnt be based on rather or not she had sex with you on the first night, cause if she aint worthy raising your kids (and not just "my kids"...) on that account, then you arent either!! Didnt thought about this??
And this no matter if you marry the one you slept with on first date or another one, if i follow your narrow view, if you did it, then you do not have the morality you require from your other part..
And more sleeping on first date doesnt mean one do so on every first date, nor that the person will found another when tired of your dick as some put it.. The relationship will have developed into something else than sex before then, and get real, that aregument cant be taken seriously, how many guys who dated 100 times before having sex, do look for greener grass once they get bored having sex with that one, and how many married couple do cheat each others only because of that?
Plenty.
So that cant be used. And a girl having sex on first date isnt less worthy than one who does not, maybe she is just one who knows what she want, and dare craving it, maybe she do so sometimes, and not other times, and it doesnt make her into a less moral person than others. Because if you would like to do so, but dont do it out of moral issues of the type "what will people think of me if they knew", and i wont do it so he dont think i am a slut, and not because you dont feel for it, then you are not being a better or more moral person, you are just being an hypocrite.
Plenty of people do not have sex on first date just for the look, to dont looks like a slut, and they wait the exact reasonable number of dates before going into sex, just because it will be the acceptable, but what they had in mind from day one was to have sex, and that count for mens too.
So thats just hypocrisy, put on the alter of virtue, but the drag shine of emptyness.
And for some of the answer, its not because you date that you want to get married.
One last point is that many women do have sex because they are after tenderness and contacts, and specially younger women and girls, and that sex is the alone way for them to get it, or an erstaz of it, and that many men do know so, and use of it to get their way.
So the real issue here is not "would you consider that a woman having sex on a first date is worthy of a realtionship! but " is a man craving sex on a first date worthy being dated at all".
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