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She is too shy about verbalizing sexual needs and desires?

 
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bryant
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PostPosted: Fri May 11, 2007 5:58 am    Post subject: She is too shy about verbalizing sexual needs and desires? Reply with quote

I am in a very committed and loving relationship with my Russian Fiancée for over one year. We met online, had intense discussions via phone and comp for 5 months before meeting in person. When we first met, she was curious about sexual desires and we cybered a few times. She was always very positive and told me that we were very compatible sexually. In person when we met, she waited the first evening after a romantic meeting and dinner. Our chemistry was incredible, and the second day I couldn’t keep her off me. I was always a gentleman and was considerate in making sure she was ok with any progression of lovemaking. Since our meeting, she makes positive innuendos as to our sexuality together, but if I start to become aroused in our conversation, she drops the subject as if she is shy or does not want it to go further. I know she desires to be with me and I am certain she is faithful. My question and bewilderment is; given our level of intimacy and trust together, and the fact we had a mutually compatible sexual experience, why would she seemingly have no interest in expressing her sexual feelings or wanting to culminate them with me via phone comp, especially since I know she enjoyed it at the beginning of our relationship? I am very puzzled. Any ideas from a Russian woman’s perspective? By the way, she is 23 and very intelligent and sophisticated.

Thanks for any ideas you may have.
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PostPosted: Sat May 12, 2007 4:05 am    Post subject: RE:She is too shy about verbalizing sexual needs and desires Reply with quote

My advice - Learn about the culture. Never talk about sex before you become intimate. It's not the done thing. I found useful information about values and culture of Latvian and Russian women from a local dating site www.randevu.lv
Hope this helps.
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PostPosted: Sun May 13, 2007 2:02 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Very good advice.
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PostPosted: Sat May 17, 2008 4:53 pm    Post subject: Dating Reply with quote

Yes! Nice information that you have shared with us.
Thank you very much!
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PostPosted: Thu Feb 05, 2009 10:01 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hmmm, Is it possible that there is too much routine in your relationship.Maybe she wants to be seduced.Be creative and show her what (crazy) fantasies are on your mind. Russian women might want to be conquered again every single day. They are really proud and have they dignity. They dont want to feel like an object thats why you should use your imagination to make her some unforgettable moments.
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PostPosted: Sun Mar 01, 2009 11:28 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

It is just about different culture. Maybe she doesn't want you to think she is thirsty
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PostPosted: Mon Mar 02, 2009 1:43 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

The culture definitely plays a role, but i don't think it's the most important one.
So you get her aroused on the phone, but not when you meet her? Then try to figure out what you are doing different on the phone? How does the subject come up on the phone and how when you meet her?
Maybe you are a bist too fast when you see her in person, try to relax and slow it down. Try to arouse her with little gestures and words, but don't make it obivouse that you want to get her into bed that night.
Just try some new things, since what you are doing so far does not work...
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PostPosted: Thu Mar 26, 2009 9:34 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Give it some time, I am sure she will open up to you eventually.
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