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semajlean
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PostPosted: Fri Jan 18, 2008 2:32 pm    Post subject: Need help with my relationship Reply with quote

Hi everyone,

I am 20 year old male in a gay relationship with a 23 year old. We have been going out for over 13months now and have had ups and downs throughout our relationship.

The main issue that keeps coming up is to do with our sex life. It causes me to be paranoid about the future of our relationship and have been reasurred that our relationship can last without full sex, but i dont seem to listen or fail to believe in this.

At the beginning of our relationship, my bf was the bottom (reciever) and i was the top due to the fact that i suffered with piles and when tried being bottom, it was too painful. Now we dont have full sex at all because he doesn't want to be seen at a bottom. All we do is foreplay.

Anyways, after all this time, my bf has kinda given up hope with having full sex with me, its kind of a coping mechanism as when we do try, he protects himself from getting upset.

My piles have gone, but still am cautious about them returning again if we try. I feel pressurised to try again as i believe that our relationship cannot last without full sex, even if my bf tells me it will.

I get insecure and paranoid that eventually, someone will come along and my bf will take that oppurtunity (sad, but seems like i dont have much hope either)

Do relationships really last without sex?

We do foreplay nearly everday of the week and enjoy it throughly. Also, apart from the sex, the relationship is great. We have fun, talk alot, cuddle, watch movies etc.

My problem is that we argue over it because he jokes about the sex and i take it too seriously and get upset, then start to say nasty things.

He comforts me saying, its been 13 months and im still with you (with no sex) and that he's happy how our relationship is, but i cant seem to be.

Im so confused

Any advice would be appreciated

thanks

semajlean
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PostPosted: Sat Mar 01, 2008 5:49 pm    Post subject: Realtion Reply with quote

Sex an relationship has no any connection , if you are established relation for the sex then it is bed thing for the guys ,Relationship means a connections for the life which we make for the easy going life .Maintain a relation is very hard task ,make a relation is easy but maintain this relationship is really very hard .
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PostPosted: Sat Apr 05, 2008 12:15 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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PostPosted: Wed Apr 16, 2008 6:01 am    Post subject: Dating tip for guys Reply with quote

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PostPosted: Fri Apr 18, 2008 1:19 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I agree with the others that sex isn't the main issue in a relationship. You shouldn't think that way but instead learn to trust your partner. A relationship isn't just there to have sex but it is mainly about a companion, someone you can treat as a close friend, someone you can have an intimate relationship with.
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PostPosted: Sun Apr 20, 2008 9:01 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

[quote="sweetcassie"]I agree with the others that sex isn't the main issue in a relationship. You shouldn't think that way but instead learn to trust your partner. A relationship isn't just there to have sex but it is mainly about a companion, someone you can treat as a close friend, someone you can have an intimate relationship with.[/quote]

Well said.
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