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My bf is a gay

 
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Blinkies
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PostPosted: Tue Jun 07, 2005 6:18 pm    Post subject: My bf is a gay Reply with quote

My boyfriend is a gay. How would you feel if you got this bad news.


To admin: Sorry, got this posted twice. Hope you understand how I'm feeling right now.
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PostPosted: Fri Jun 10, 2005 4:49 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Oh I am so sorry to hear about that Sad You must be so shocked to hear about it?

Me? The thoughts really disgust me. I don't think I will be able to forgive him!!! Evil or Very Mad So you know the other guy?
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PostPosted: Sun Jun 12, 2005 5:40 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hi Blinkies

Hmm... hasn't heard from you in a while... Hope everything is fine? Sad

Well, I know it's definitely hard to accept such a news. Whatever it is, hope you be strong, Blinkies. At least it's better to know it early to end the relationship soon? More suffering there will be if things were to drag on. He definitely doesn't deserve your love and your tears for him. I am sure you eventually meet someone who will truly cherish you.

Don't keep to yourself k, Blinkies? If you need to, I will always be most willing to listen to you and to lend you my "shoulder" to cry on... Wink

Do drop me a note, let me know that you are ok, Blinkies?

Hope time will be able to heal your wound...
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PostPosted: Mon Jun 12, 2006 8:54 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Blinkies;
I am so sorry, I know how it feels I have been there.
But hey I recovered. There's still life ahead and someone is waiting for you. You just have to let that person come to you, and make sure you don't shut the doors on that someone.

Scorpio is right he doesn't deserve your tears, you have to be strong about it.
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PostPosted: Thu Jul 13, 2006 8:20 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Blinkies, didn't you think it's part of the getting-to-know each other stage? If you knew him well before jumping to the relationship, then you would have known that he is gay. I'm not saying it's your fault. I just don't want to also say it's the guys fault.

However, like everybody said, he's not worth your tears girl. So cheer up!
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PostPosted: Tue Aug 29, 2006 12:20 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

It's so tragic sometimes, when they (both men and women) refuse to accept it and come out of the closet. I once loved a man who later proved to be bisexual, and I discovered this by discovering some e-mails on my computer, attempts to hook up with other men. I, quite simply, and without going off the deep end, told him to have at it. If there is one thing I have learned in 50 yrs of life, its that you can not, and I repeat, cannot change people, regardless of how much you love them. And, if he wants a relationship with another man, you cant change that fact. You can accept, and move on with your own life. Give yourself time to grieve, but you will get over him, sooner than you think. And, keep telling yourself (and beleive it) you deserve more and better. Cool Cool
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PostPosted: Mon Jun 11, 2007 5:40 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

my friend married someone who was gay and now they are divorced.
enough said. you cannot change spots on a leopard - can u?
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PostPosted: Sun Jun 17, 2007 11:31 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Super bad news for a girl like you!

A gay with a girl... I would be shock if I am a girl.. Ha ha ha! Laughing
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PostPosted: Sat Mar 01, 2008 6:19 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

i am felling after find u'r news ,but now how you are feel ,
don't worry ,try online dating and choose any other guys for you .
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PostPosted: Sat Mar 01, 2008 9:02 pm    Post subject: Re: My bf is a gay Reply with quote

[quote:f82298d40e="Blinkies"]My boyfriend is a gay. How would you feel if you got this bad news.


To admin: Sorry, got this posted twice. Hope you understand how I'm feeling right now.[/quote:f82298d40e]

Least he found the courage to finally admit it to you, that he was gay.
I am sure it hurt him also to have to tell you that bit of news.

If I had a boyfriend tell me he was gay, or suspected he was gay, I would feel surprised but then if you love someone can you really be mad at them for finally being honest with you. Can you hate someone for finally being honest with themselves as well, not like he will have it easy, and he will still need you to be his friend.

You can just love him a different way now, and go find a bf who is better suited to you, right?
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