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PostPosted: Thu Mar 01, 2007 10:25 pm    Post subject: Help plzzz Reply with quote

hi everyone,im new in these boards so plz be nice to me. Smile

i have a major problem that i wud like to ask u kind ppl advice on. wel here it goes..

well there's this guy i have known just over 6 months now, and we become really good friends.he tells me im one of his best friends and he feels close to me. we have this weird flirty relationship but we both know we are just friends.we are always teasing one another,i say mean things to him and he says mean things to me, we bicker all the time but at the same time we will stick up 4 each other.we both are sacastic as each other. he is always hugging me pinching me basically he's really touchy touchy with me.i dont mind coz thats the way we are.he doesnt like it when i ignore him,(i dont even relize i do it)he gets all hot and bothered about it. but sometimes he gives me this look and i dont know quite what it means.. my friends always tease me with the 'he likes you'convo, but i know that he doesnt... but lately i dont know anymore.... does he just see me as a close friend or a bit more than a friend. its really bugging me..plz help.
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PostPosted: Thu Mar 01, 2007 11:01 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

That's hard to say. If you want to know.. the best one to ask is him. Have a sit down talk with him. Good luck ! Very Happy
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PostPosted: Fri Mar 02, 2007 1:44 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Exactly! you learned that one! Very Happy Wink
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PostPosted: Fri Mar 02, 2007 1:28 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Very Happy
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PostPosted: Fri Mar 02, 2007 1:30 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

hello love! Wink
starting Cool already? Very Happy
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PostPosted: Fri Mar 02, 2007 1:42 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I agree the best thing is to have a talk w/him about it. If you don't, your always going to be wondering.

Good luck! Smile
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PostPosted: Fri Mar 02, 2007 1:47 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

That is so true. For me, I have to know things.. bad or good.
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PostPosted: Fri Mar 02, 2007 2:02 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Why do people ask about it? why cant they just think it and do it on their own? isnt it evident? asking directly!??

It is strange. Why is it like that?

Where does this fear come from? and why do we need this stample from others to know it is alright to do so?

Why are we so unsure about ourselves that we dont believe what our own voice is shouting at us, and we suffer long by doing so, and not doing the simpliest thing.. asking..?
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PostPosted: Fri Mar 02, 2007 2:10 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I think alot of people are afraid of the "unkown", meaning they WANT to know, they KNOW they should ask in order to get to the heart of the matter, but they get a little afraid. I think it would be very disheartening to ask someone out right, "Do you care about me, cause it seems like it" & have that person tell them NO, I only like you as a friend, your my buddy type of deal.

It is best though, to get to the heart of the matter & make sure what's going on.
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PostPosted: Fri Mar 02, 2007 3:27 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I think in fact that the problem is the same for asking as for answering and that the one answering will say so for the same reasons as one will bescare to ask it..
doing soemthing ilogical, not giving in to its real inner fealing but appearing to do so, and saying the compleete opposit that what he feels..

they will also plunge into panic at hearing the question as they themselves have tumble around with the same without daring for the same crazzy reasons of lack of selfinsurance, and the same lack will make them say no, to look strong and also because they actually dont know for sure how they feel like.
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PostPosted: Fri Mar 02, 2007 3:56 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Very true also. It can happen that the person that is going to be asked the question may not know how to answer it.
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PostPosted: Fri Mar 02, 2007 6:17 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

BINGO ! We have a winner !
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PostPosted: Fri Mar 02, 2007 10:02 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

thats me who said it.... Evil or Very Mad

Very Happy
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PostPosted: Fri Mar 02, 2007 10:49 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

You're not still jealous, are you, love?
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PostPosted: Fri Mar 02, 2007 10:57 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

no, its me who said it, and she confirmed it, cant you see it? read what i wrote before her post and you will see.. Wink
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