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What is love?

 
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sarahshasu
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PostPosted: Tue Feb 23, 2010 7:05 pm    Post subject: What is love? Reply with quote

Hey guys and girls, as a teenager I'm confused and new at this love thing.

I think I'm in love because that's the only word I have to describe it but people keep telling me I don't know what love is because I'm to young.

Sometimes I wish people would just tell me what it is and let me decide for myself if it's love or not.

So can some seasoned advisers tell me what love is?

Thanks in advance for the help.
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PostPosted: Thu Mar 11, 2010 4:57 pm    Post subject: Re: What is love? Reply with quote

Simple. There is no such thing as love. People are brainwashed into believeing there is a such thing as "love" because we tell our kids to "go to school. get a job, get married and have a family."

Most people don't stop to think "wait a minute! why am i only allowed to be with ONE person?!?! Why can't I stay single and be with as many people I want?"

You can eat steak every night for dinner, but sooner or later, you're gonna want something else, no matter how good the steak is. You may want pizza some nights, or chicken, or even cheap mcdonalds fries once in a while.

I just never understood how you could ONLY be attracted to ONE person with all the billions of people on this planet. People say, "Oh I love this person because we have common interests and get along great." Yeah well big deal, you can say the same about your mom or dad and friends.

I always make this joke about people who get divorced to prove there is no such thing as love: "Boy, it's rare when a person finds their one true love. But, for those who get divorced and remarried, they found true love twice!"

"Love" is not a feeling. It is an "obsession" or "disease" if you will. Most people have no self-worth and they think they can only be happy by having someone in their life. But, this just makes the person even more frustrated as they are now in a relationship, but are still unhappy - and that's because being "lonely" wasn't their only problem.

If you think "but won't that get boring and lonely being alone? I mean everyone needs someone, don't they?" I only have this quote for you, "if you're bored, then you're boring."
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PostPosted: Mon Mar 15, 2010 7:41 pm    Post subject: It takes time to figure out Reply with quote

Sarah,

I can tell you that love is a hard thing to figure out. you said that you are just a teenager and at that young age it can be hard to separate emotions. There is a difference between love and infatuation, but it can be very hard to distinguish between the two. Usually, at first when you have met someone you like you can become very attached to them thinking you can't be without them, this is more infatuation than love. I would say love is something that can build from an infatuation, and love comes after you have built a relationship upon an attraction to a level of trust, caring and companionship.

I would caution you to be careful not to confuse infatuation with love. I have done this all to often, and it usually leads to me getting hurt. In the early stages after meeting someone you like it is infatuation, honest love will take time to develop as you get to really know someone.

I hope this helps
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PostPosted: Sat Apr 24, 2010 4:10 pm    Post subject: What is love Reply with quote

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Bobo Wrote:

I dont mean to be a smart-ass, but who are these guys and will they be any good? I cant tell you a person on the roster and have no idea whether Tom Crean can coach without Dwayne Wade on the floor. I think I could coach a college team with Wade on it and win 25 games.

Purdue fans need the Hoosiers to rock it so the Boilers take enjoy beating their asses, instead of feeling pity for how far the program has fallen.


Bobo,

Eventually, IU will be good. Obviously not this year and most likely not next year either probably.500 or so. IU was caught cheating and they paid a stiff price for it and they should have. They hired a coach who was on probation for cheating so dont be surprised when he cheats again.

Coach Crean had to come in and change the culture because Coach Sampsons players did not view playing at the Div. I level in a premier conference as a privilege not to mention at a B-Ball School. He had to rid the program of that sense of entitlement prior players apparently had so he cleaned house.

Because of the late start CC had last year with recruiting, he was looking for the best available warm bodies to fill out the roster since he only had to two returning players who were little used walk-ons so last year is a wash. This year, his recruiting class was most likely overrated because there are no players in the program who have "been there" and say what you want, that makes a big difference goes to senior leadership, or lack thereof. These guys will have to figure it out as they go. Eventually, the rivalry will be just that but not for awhile.

This is not an excuse. However, it is a fact of life that when you bring in a known cheater, you have to pay the piper and that is what is happening in Bloomington so enjoy the dominance while it lasts probably at least another year. I have to believe IU will turn it around when Tom Izzo says he Coach Crean will get it done Coach Izzo did not have to say anything. Coach Crean has chosen not to take short cuts because he is doing it the right way in rebuilding the program so he has been laying the foundation. The team and coaches dont deserve the punishment but the University does and they got exactly what they asked for.

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IndyBubba Sorry it was long
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PostPosted: Sat May 01, 2010 4:15 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Love is a decision and not just a feeling Very Happy That's my side when it comes to that word Very Happy
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