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Shy Guy needs to build self confidence

 
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PostPosted: Thu Jan 21, 2010 10:38 pm    Post subject: Shy Guy needs to build self confidence Reply with quote

Hi All
I am not sure if this is posted in the right place or not but here goes
I am a 32 year old man who has never had a Girlfriend and I come here for some advice on Building my self confidence in myself and how to approach Girls. I had a Crush on a Girl for about 10 years and only recently tried to do something about it, unfortunatley I never managed to approach her and now some else has I feel gutted ! I know that it was just a crush and I had never spoken to her but I feel sick. I sometimes wonder how people can go through all this hassle of trying to find someone special to me sometimes I think it is just not worth it, but I don't want to end up alone. I was just wondering how people go about gaining self confidence I tried a Hypnotherapist once I had several sessions but I feel it did'nt work for me. Has anyboby tried these sites that are advertised online ? Can Listening to a recorded message every day really improve your self confidence ? If anyone has any advice I would be grateful because this Shyness is ruining my Life ! Trying to approach girls is another problem and knowing what to say is difficult. Any Advice

Thanks James
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PostPosted: Mon Feb 08, 2010 11:56 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

What is the worst thing that can happen? Rejection? Yes, that can be scary. There are many other women that may take a liking to what you have to offer. Though, it would be very important to find ways in building up your self-esteem to give you the strength to "open up" and speak your truth. A licensed clinical social worker (LCSW) may be beneficial. In addition to getting help, try online dating. Dating sites take your profile and match it to other individuals. Best to you. http://www.bestsitesforonlinedating.com
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PostPosted: Wed Feb 10, 2010 9:50 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Confidence is nothing but being yourself. I believe the moment you start loving yourself for the way you are, girls will automatically start loving you as well. Loving yourself means you have confidence in yourself. Take your time to enjoy getting to know other person. Believe in yourself. With a powerful and positive mindset, nothing can stop you from getting the woman of your dream.
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