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Too young to settle?

 
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Misskay
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PostPosted: Sat Sep 26, 2009 3:55 pm    Post subject: Too young to settle? Reply with quote

Hi guys! If you could input your honest opinion I'd really appreciate it!

I'm a young, only 19, but I have found myself in a situation where I'm caught in the middle of choosing to stay with my boyfriend or break things off. I'm beginning college and he's still a senior in highschool. I feel that I'm too young to be in a serious relationship and i'd like to experience college life and everything that follows. At the same time, I feel that I will not find someone as wonderful as he is when I'm older and ready to really settle down. Is this weird for me to think this? Do you agrees I'm too young? Or is it something else? Any input is great. Thanks Smile
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PostPosted: Sat Sep 26, 2009 8:16 pm    Post subject: Re: Too young to settle? Reply with quote

[quote="Misskay"]Hi guys! If you could input your honest opinion I'd really appreciate it!

I'm a young, only 19, but I have found myself in a situation where I'm caught in the middle of choosing to stay with my boyfriend or break things off. I'm beginning college and he's still a senior in highschool. I feel that I'm too young to be in a serious relationship and i'd like to experience college life and everything that follows. At the same time, I feel that I will not find someone as wonderful as he is when I'm older and ready to really settle down. Is this weird for me to think this? Do you agrees I'm too young? Or is it something else? Any input is great. Thanks Smile[/quote]

If you don't want to completely break it off with him, then try to distance yourself a bit if that is possible for you to do. The guy might be great, but if he's still in high school, and you're in college, then you might find him breaking with you when he hits college. It is a reality that college is a different world than high school, with many new people being met, new things to do and so forth. Give yourself plenty of breathing space so you can let new experiences and people into your life.
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PostPosted: Mon Oct 12, 2009 1:50 pm    Post subject: No worries Reply with quote

This is normal to feel like this... You're very young and it's good you know this... I would go off to college and do you for a while unlike what I did..
I moved right in with my boyfriend before I ever got my own place and did me for a while now I'm moving out it's very hard when you live together and share everything... Do you while you can Smile
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