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pookskie
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PostPosted: Sun Mar 04, 2007 4:09 pm    Post subject: Commitment issues Reply with quote

In the interest of time and space, here is the condensed version. I have been with my man for about 2 and a half years. We are very compatible in every way and this is the first time I have really bben in love...and I am 37! He has 2 previous marriages and the last one ended due to infidelity on his wife's part. This relationship rally did a number on him. Once he told me that he loved me, he got cold feet and very time after that, whenever he would get close to me, he would "run." This has basically been the pattern for the last year and a half. Of course, I always push for more becase I love this man....he finally told me at Christmas that he couldn't commit, he just wasn't there yet. That was all I needed to walk away.....I cried and then started to put the pieces back together to move on. ONly problem is that he kept trying to get in touch with me. I finally talked to him and he said he didn't want to let go. Well, I sure didn't so things continued...until last week. The pattern continues....he gets close to me and then runs. I decided I couldn't do this any more and told him it was over. The problem now is that I am miserable - I miss him so much. Am I wrong to contact him? I just don't know where to go from here.....
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PostPosted: Wed Mar 21, 2007 7:38 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Tell him to s**t or, get off the pot!
i mean he either loves you or he doesn't?
it's simple he wants to be with YOU, or he doesn't he understands YOU are not his ex- or he doesn't, don't let him play games with you if you really care about him and love him ( and he does you), he'll want you to be happy, and if he's not willing to go that route for you let him go and tell him not to call untill he's made up his mind. Wink
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PostPosted: Wed Mar 21, 2007 7:42 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Laughing I say the same damn thing ! Laughing So funny to see other people say the same thing you do. Laughing
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PostPosted: Wed Mar 21, 2007 7:50 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Got it from my parents growing up Wink
I love fun expressions Wink
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PostPosted: Wed Mar 21, 2007 7:54 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I guess that's where I got mine too. Laughing
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PostPosted: Wed Mar 21, 2007 7:56 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Rolling Eyes
or maybe she jsut teached you it in coulisse
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PostPosted: Mon Jun 11, 2007 5:34 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

weird - you story is so similar to mine. Im 37 been dating someone for 2 years and he told me he doesnt want to date me - i broke up with him and (4 x) and he keeps coming back. problem is hes my neighbor. somehow and at some point we really need to let go - im meeting other guys...not on an intimate level but you should go out there - this guy has too much baggage and hes scared of committing -
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