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PostPosted: Mon Apr 12, 2010 5:01 pm    Post subject: stuck in the middle Reply with quote

now here was my situation my boyfriend at the time now my ex after we brokeup he dared asked me if i wanted his secret girlfriend while he's in one but what hurts about it is that his new gf is my best friend (former now). one how could he two how could she?!!!!! now im beginning to think he brokeup with me to be with her what a lying snake!!! and her she was supposed to be my friend she knew how much pain i was in and then she go behind my back and do that shit! Evil or Very Mad and she told me feelings change which is true but she sttarted dating him a month after he and i brokeup....i was still very much in pain and heartache. i was deeply in love with him.


I was so alone and hurt no one to talk to, so i was desparate to get him back but it was too late. Eventually i got the courage to ask this guy out and to my surprise he said yes and we dated for awhile he was wonderful to me but i he noticed that i wasn't ready for another serious relationship so we brokeup as well. He saw that i was still in love with my ex even though he knew i loved him too i did very much so. My heart wasn't ready i couldn't let go of my ex (first) when my second bf and i broke up i let him go with grace i understood why and that was that.


It's been almost a year now and it feels like we brokeup yesterday i don't think i'll ever move on from my first ex-bf we've been together for 3 1/2 years i truely loved him and still do. im so hurt and barely have any self-esteem that the next guy that calls me pretty whether they mean or not i just might sleep with them even though the moment doesn't last very long at least i got to feel pretty at the moment.


idk is it worth it to be someones secret lover then be alone?


what guy will want me now? here are my choices ethier i stay with my ex and be in a love triangle or be sad & lonely god knows for how long? He was my everything and now im left with nothing, my friends tell me all the time that he's laughing and smilen somwhere, why shoudn'tyou? he doesn't care about you, why should you care about him? he doesn't love you, why do you? my answer always is he has someone i don't that's why. without a bf im just an ex-gf a girl who was kicked to the curve for someone else, a hollow person.


life after a break up sucks Crying or Very sad
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PostPosted: Sat May 01, 2010 4:49 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

awww... hugs! im really sorry to hear that. But if he really does love you, then choosing isn't an option.. he should have done that a long time ago. But do not worry, it isn't you loss, it's his because he gave up the person who loves him the most. I assure you, there are millions of other men who'd want you, so it's high time you stop sulking! Go out and date, but don't give yourself away that easy. Take care of yourself, okay? Hugs!
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PostPosted: Mon May 03, 2010 3:05 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

thanks!
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