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PostPosted: Thu Oct 29, 2009 1:31 pm    Post subject: Complicated Situation Reply with quote

So, as the name of the thread suggests, I find myself in a complicated situation and would really, really appreciate some help in... uncomplicating it Very Happy

As a bit of background, I'm a Canadian who is currently studying/working in a country close to Scandinavia, having moved to this particular country just a few months ago. Last December, I attended a little conference in eastern Europe and met this one really incredible lady, exact same age as me and with a very similar background, from Sweden. Our contact was pretty limited, though, and we only spoke on a few occasions during that week.

As it came to pass, word reached her that I was just a short ferry-ride away from Sweden. She contacts me right away to suggest that I come over for a visit. The invitation seems semi-formal to me and, given that our previous conversations were semi-formal, I assumed that the purpose of the trip would be purely business. Sure enough, upon arriving I had a bit of a meeting with one of the organizations she's involved with to discuss stuff related to the conference where we met. But this lasted all of an hour and the rest of my time was spent getting a guided tour of Stockholm from her, trying out her favourite cafes, etc. The day ended with her suggesting that I make a longer visit inside of a month and that I try to attend another conference taking place in a few weeks, hosted by the same group that ran the one where we first met.

All of this has got me to thinking if it was purely a professional gesture or if there's an actual interest there? If it was professional, why suggest I come for a longer visit when there's no formal events from her group taking place? And why push for me to go to this next conference- wouldn't any random Canadian suffice?

Whether this does or does not indicate a level of interest, are there any ways I can get some sort of commitment from her over the course of a single week? We'd have a lot of contact this time, so it could be doable but I'm also concerned about doing a rush job and coming on too strong.

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PostPosted: Wed Dec 02, 2009 10:26 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Is it possible to get in touch with that lady, if possible get along with her and spend some time together and you can understand that whether the realtion is only professional gesture or not.
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