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I didn't want to hurt you...

 
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beautyrush
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PostPosted: Tue Sep 22, 2009 1:08 pm    Post subject: I didn't want to hurt you... Reply with quote

I met this guy about 5 weeks ago on facebook. we went to highschool together but have never talked to one another prior to facebook. a week into talking on FB he invited me to a wedding and then we started seeing eachother from there.

well, about a month goes by and he tells me he's not ready, he's having a hard time getting close/intimate with me but still wants to be friends, he doesn't want our friendship to change because we do have a great time together. he didn't want to "hurt me". (what does that mean by the way?) He just got out of a long term relationship about 3 months ago sO i understand...

ok, so, I've come to realize that we may have been moving too fast and friends would be good. we're still gonna hang out etc.

it's kinda hard though because I really was liking him.
What does "I didn't want to hurt you" mean?
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PostPosted: Tue Sep 22, 2009 1:34 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I would also like to add that I'm not really sure "how" to be friends with him. I don't want to push him away but I really DO want to be friends.... advice on that?
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PostPosted: Thu Sep 24, 2009 1:54 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

When he said he doesn't want to hurt you he means that he doesn't want to be the cause of pain when he cannot reciprocate the love that you are feeling towards him.

It is so difficult to remain friends with someone you love however especially all he wanted is friendship. If you want him to love him back just be patient about it but if you think that it is going nowhere then it is time to move on and find another man who can love you back.
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