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PostPosted: Thu Nov 16, 2006 12:14 am    Post subject: Useual Like my best friend thingy Reply with quote

Hi i have liked my best friend since i have known her I met her one night and never really spoke 2 her until about a year l8r but when I started talking to her I felt strange i thought it was just a stupid thing i felt it b4 but when i got home, the next day I still felt the same it eventually got to the stage that all I could think about was her (litrally) i ended up gettin depression bla bla she helped me throught it after going to a therapist and alot of stuff she eventually started talking 2 me again. i managed to bury my feelings for her then they came back. I havent seen her for about 3-4 yrs she is my best friend as far as i am aware i am a close friend of hers aswell. She phones me now and again txts me now and again aswell mostly talk to her on the internet tho which is near enough every night. l8ly she has fallen for someone and spoken to me about it I told her just to tell the person how she felt and she did. (with bringing in the words "sometimes best way to love someone is to let them go") ive tried to let her go but i cant the feelings are still there and they have been for 3 years maybe even 4. The thing i find ironic is that when I tell her how I feel about this girl she dont no its about her I wish i could tell her but am scared of losing her as a friend should I tell her how I feel maybe try meet up with her one day again and try reading signs from her i am confused sometimes I get the feeling she may be flirting with me but its over the internet so its really hard to tell although we seem to have a lot in common. should i tell her how I feel at the risk of losing her as a friend or just leave it.

Sorry bout the long post thanks for the advice is much Obliged thank you
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PostPosted: Thu Nov 16, 2006 1:18 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hmmm... so you guys hasn't been really meeting up? You were saying trying to meet up with her one day again...?

Well, as you said it yourself... communication over the internet is definitely not enough; not enough for us to be telling anything...

To risk losing her as a friend? Hmmm... in anyway, I would say it is definitely too early to be taking this risk. Even if you should risk, you should risk in the best possible chance of winning things. I guess the best of what you can do for now, is to try to meet up with her... and try to make it a regular thing... If she don't even want to be meeting up with you, I don't think she would actually be liking... you know?
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PostPosted: Thu Nov 16, 2006 1:26 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

yea I get what you mean she has suggested now and again that we meet up for a drink but nuthin has ever been done or anything. I have asked her aswel she said yea sometime never actually set dates or anythin
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PostPosted: Sun Nov 19, 2006 6:40 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Well, I guess you will have to take some initiative on your part too. And if say like after several and several time of sincere arrangement from you, she always just find excuses and... then we should be able to clearly know how far this friendship would go...
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PostPosted: Sun Dec 10, 2006 11:22 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

[quote:76b0fae08b="scorpio"]Well, I guess you will have to take some initiative on your part too. And if say like after several and several time of sincere arrangement from you, she always just find excuses and... then we should be able to clearly know how far this friendship would go...[/quote:76b0fae08b]


yeah you right give a time of each other...
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PostPosted: Fri Feb 15, 2008 4:36 pm    Post subject: firendship Reply with quote

i just say for the friendship is that

[b:51575ddfda]One of the critical issues in the success of any relationship is friendship[/b:51575ddfda]. There are degrees of friendship depending on the type of relationship. Let's look at some of the factors in a friendship.
Trust, Respect., Honesty., Integrity. , Listening., Support

its the meaning of friend it may be either girl or boy doesn't matter
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