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Ive loved you since the day i met you , i just didnt know =[

 
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PostPosted: Thu Jun 14, 2007 1:01 pm    Post subject: Ive loved you since the day i met you , i just didnt know =[ Reply with quote

School started again , i was nervous on how it would be , i was really tense , but when i saw my bestfriend , i was so happy the first words she told me were " omg i love your hair it suits you , i miss you so much " then she hugs me ...

That there started everything , it seems like summer (being away from each other) made us closer because she was never like that before , could she have missed me that much , we have been friends for one year , i still remember , it was the third day of 8th grade we met , and now were in 9th , i didnt really miss her that much during break , but i thought about her , i hoped we were classmates this year but we got seperated , because we used to be like the duo in school , we got so close , there was no stopping us.

Well on the first day she came to my classroom , and she asked for my notebook , so i gave it to her , when another friend of mine gave it back , i looked inside and i saw things like "it's so boring without you , im shmexy , we miss you " and stuff like that , it touched me , thats when i realized that i love her, i have loved her since the start , but i allways thought it was infatuation , i just realized now that the things we used to do , the things we used to say , meant allot to me , and i could never forget that.

So now it's the second day , i didnt really hang out with her coz i think she replaced me with this other girl , they have allot in common and they hang allot but yeah , i got jelous and i felt out of place , but even though my feelings were still the same.

After school we played soccer , we had fun , she was trying to jump on my back ( i felt super extra happy , but i acted like EWW! ) , we flirted with each other in a way (bestfriend thing) and all.

I rode in her car , we went to mcdonalds , she got fries and i got ice cream , she suddenly pulled out a fry and held it against my face , ( i didnt want to take it coz i was shy ) but i did , and that felt so cute , after that we went out i hugged her , i opened the door for her and she left.

I really feel like shes the one i wanna pour my love into , she makes me happy all the time , shes so sweet , shes funny and crazy lol , but the worst thing is shes taken and she tells me all these hot stories about her and the guy - Not about sex just french kissing for 40+ muinites and all) so yeah i was like okay cool , i didnt feel jelous , coz i was happy for her , she seems really happy , and i respect that.

All i want is for her to realize that im there for her , it's hard , knowing that we can never be together but idc , i love her , i wanna make her happy , thats my purpose in life , making friends happy.

Im not ready to tell her anything , it might ruin the friendship , but i need advice on how to handle this please ? thanks fo the time
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PostPosted: Thu Jun 14, 2007 4:52 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Since you typed that you aren't ready to tell her how you feel about her. Just continue on being her friend, the things you described sound like a good friend to me. You can let her know your there for her as her friend by being you.
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PostPosted: Fri Jun 15, 2007 12:44 pm    Post subject: Sad =[ Reply with quote

Okay i just got home from school today , she barley talked to me , she prefers hanging with the cool kids , she dosent care about me , we allways used to eat lunch together / pick me up from class , now she just goes straight down ,m i asked her why she didnt pick me up and she didnt mind me , she didnt hug me , nor did she say goodbye , i feel sad , besides that , people hate me , because im different.
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PostPosted: Fri Jun 15, 2007 1:52 pm    Post subject: Re: Sad =[ Reply with quote

[quote:bf407fe4ed="imonly14"]Okay i just got home from school today , she barley talked to me , she prefers hanging with the cool kids , she dosent care about me , we allways used to eat lunch together / pick me up from class , now she just goes straight down ,m i asked her why she didnt pick me up and she didnt mind me , she didnt hug me , nor did she say goodbye , i feel sad , besides that , people hate me , because im different.[/quote:bf407fe4ed]

Not a very good reason to hate someone because they're different. We are all different. She needs to come up with a better reason than that.
It's not you, it's the way she is, which to me, doesn't seem like a very good friend anyway. I rather have no friends than fake friends. You know..friends that say that they are your friend, but don't treat you like a friend should and/or talk about you behind your back.
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PostPosted: Fri Jun 15, 2007 4:06 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

She's not a very good friend to you if she is treating you the way she is. I would leave her be, let her have the "popular kids". There are plenty more real people out there that know how to be a real friend.
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PostPosted: Sun Jun 17, 2007 12:28 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I just keep saying this to my friend when he told me who he got a crush on.

Friends become Best friends become Crushes become Boyfriends/Girlfriends or much more in love.

I really did experience that like you did but not the part about the "Ive loved you since the day i met you , i just didn't know"

I did got in love at someone with the "First sight at the First Love"

I loved her until today and it wouldn't change. Day by day, my friends talk about that and I get my heart torn to bits of what they say.

I am melting like a piece of ice but it would not change. I would pray for everyone at anytime.

It brings back memories like I have.

Anyways, You better do the Bestfriends forever and you might get in love and get married at the future somehow. Very Happy
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