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MarshaMarshaMarsha
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PostPosted: Fri Jul 07, 2006 12:04 am    Post subject: Woman on top ideas... Reply with quote

Okay, my b/f really favors woman on top sex...until he met me that is. He has told me that he doesn't enjoy woman on top sex with me, b/c i don't do it the way he needs me to. He also said i'm not the first partner he's had this problem with, that there's only been one person who ever was great on top for him.

I was hurt and confused the first time he told me that, which he did do nicely and it was after we had had sex and i asked him why he was unable to cum. We talk very openly and he told me that he needs me to move a certain way that i do not move like while we are doing it in that position. He has tried to show me how he needs me to move, but i just don't get it. lol

I always lean forward on my hands, which he says is fine, and i move towards his face and away from his face...which is where we have the problems....i enjoy this, provides excellent g-spot stimulation for me...but he says it doesn't feel enjoyable to him. He needs me to move straight up and down but without sitting totally straight up on his lap and without using my knees to do so...and i can't figure out how to do that. lol He has also told me to lean forward like i do and just move my hips up and down and i can't seem to be coordinated enough to do that either...i also have the problem that after a certain amount of stimulation, i am very wet and unable to feel exactly how his penis is moving inside of me...which is probably also why i can't figure out how to move like he needs me to.

Does anyone else have or have had this problem? I don't want sex to become something he doesn't look forward to and lately he's been less interested than usual. I really want to be a good lover to him so if anyone has any advice or can explain it in a better way than he is trying to do so, please help me out. I've never had this problem before in the past, every other guy i've ever been with has loved the way i moved on top...but everyone is different and i'm trying to be on the same page as he is.
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PostPosted: Sun Jul 09, 2006 2:38 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Experiment, experiment, experiment. If you can talk so openly about it with him, then you should be able to communicate while you are in the position. Try different moves, have him position you where he wants you. You will only need to do this until you find the perfect motion for the both of you. Have fun with it and don't put too much emphasis on making each other cum at this point. Just look for the sweet spot and be adventurous!
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PostPosted: Tue Jul 11, 2006 8:52 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Well I agree with Buck if you could talk so openly why don't you try talking about it during sex, that way he could tell you how to move while you try. I understand what he tells you to do, but in order for you to do it he needs to tell you how and what to do while you are having sex. He could also place his hands on your hips and move them himself to show you how to do it.

Good Luck
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PostPosted: Thu Jul 13, 2006 8:08 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

i agree! a talk after sex is good. keep and open communication and compromise. good luck! Smile
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PostPosted: Tue May 29, 2007 10:03 pm    Post subject: reverse cowgirl Reply with quote

my man's favorite girl on top position is reverse cowgirl (facing his feet, while riding him). recently we tried this with an alteration. in this position, i put my legs between his and he pulls his knees up to his chest. I am in the same position as before, just not with his legs between me anymore. He enjoyed it a lot. I didnt enjoy it quite as much b/c the angle wasnt quite right for me.

Anyone else tried this one?
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PostPosted: Mon Apr 14, 2008 11:16 am    Post subject: love is feeling Reply with quote

i think that some person doing love only for the sex but that is bed thing for him ,it is insult for the love .love is feeling that create from the heart.
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PostPosted: Tue Apr 29, 2008 3:38 pm    Post subject: RE: Love, Romance Reply with quote

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PostPosted: Sun Jun 20, 2010 9:17 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

What yours have to do is try different positions until both of you enjoy it and feel comfortable.
We're not born to know what our partner want.

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