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PostPosted: Thu May 10, 2007 1:04 pm    Post subject: Is he into me? Reply with quote

hi..i am new here...
i just got to noe this Australia guy in my work place...he is bigger than me by 12 years old...we got to noe each other cause tt time my whole department left early for a movie treat which left me alone in the company cause i am only temp staff... then he start to talk to me...i also help him with some printings...he offer to treat me coffee but in the end coz we can't fixed the date...he asked me out for a movie...

we did went for the movie on the following monday..ya the whole outing or date is very fun...but during tt time i dunno he is interested in me...i tot purely an outing to replace the coffee treat...

we did sms each other often during tt time...in our sms we did flirt a bit...until the very sms he send me then i realised he like me...he said i did dream of u last nite...i dream abt we are holding hand....i was like shocked to receive tt...

we still continue to sms each other...and he would always tell me how he would kiss me....i asked him are u falling for me...his reply was sometimes i think i am falling for u but i want to take it slow..i was like okay..i also started missing him then...we suppose to meet last sat but he told me he sick on tt day when i asked him where are we gg to meet...

this week we didn't exchange sms at all....is he into me? i miss his sms me everyday..i would stare at my phone occassionally...or had he forget abt me? he mean it or not? reali making me confuse...i dunno my feelings for him now...i never been into a relationship yet...
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PostPosted: Thu May 10, 2007 1:09 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

From what you described is sounds like he likes you. Maybe because he is sick is the reason he hasn't sent you an SMS yet. Have you sent him 1? Maybe if you haven't, send him 1 just to let him know you are thinking of him & hoping he is feeling better. That might get him to send you 1 back & start the SMS's back & forth.
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PostPosted: Thu May 10, 2007 1:45 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

ya actually i did send him a message to ask him whether he feel better he got reply me on last sat...we got exchange a few sms....

but for this week he never send me sms again...we got to see each other again on mon...is a coincident to meet each other in the lobby and he is waiting for other colleagues...we did exchange a few lines..

on tue nite...i send him a goodnite msg...he just replied thanks and ask me how's my sis birthday...i reply back we never get to celebrate my sis went out with her friend..haha..then he never reply me till now...

i really dunno wat's in his mind? does he like me?
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PostPosted: Thu May 10, 2007 2:28 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

How old are you both?
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PostPosted: Thu May 10, 2007 3:02 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Maybe you should ask him if he likes you. That would help you from all the wondering you are doing now.
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PostPosted: Thu May 10, 2007 3:03 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Just ask.
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PostPosted: Fri May 11, 2007 1:09 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

actually i did ask him...his reply was sometimes i am falling for u but i want to take it slow...i dunno whether he meant it or not...haha

i am 19 this yr while he is 31 this yr
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PostPosted: Fri May 11, 2007 12:57 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

That is a pretty big age gap between the both of you. I don't always think age difference is a bad thing, but I would take things slowly w/him. That way you can make for certain that he really does have feelings for you.

You really just have to ask him if he is serious when he says he is falling for you, but he wants to take things slowly. You won't really know how he is feeling until you ask him directly. If based on his SMS answers to you, you still have a question or 2, ask him those questions too.
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PostPosted: Fri May 11, 2007 3:50 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

thanks angel...i get yr point...i will take it slow..to noe whether he is truthful not..haha

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PostPosted: Fri May 11, 2007 4:20 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I would try for someone around your own age, but do I know.
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PostPosted: Fri May 11, 2007 5:09 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

brandon...wat u mean by but do i know? i think tt around my own age would be better then will have more things to chat about which i tot at first...in love this area, logic will always be loss...u just can't explain wat u are doing...i think i will let nature take its course...haha...thanks:)
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PostPosted: Fri May 11, 2007 5:52 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Ok, whatever makes you truly happy, hun.
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PostPosted: Sat May 12, 2007 12:40 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

thanks brandon for yr advice Very Happy
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PostPosted: Sat May 12, 2007 1:21 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Very Happy You're welcome, hun.
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