Advice: Be Glad That There's Quarrel in Your Relationship
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Glad That There's Quarrel in Your Relationship
Is your love
relationship smooth? Have the both of you actually quarreled before?
If your answer is yes, then you should be happy and be glad that
it happened. But if your answer is however a no, then you should
be aware of the danger that you are facing. Hmm– did I make things
sound a bit too scary? Ha, it is not exactly that serious; don't
be scared off by me. Well, I should believe that the both of you
are just, still in the sweet honeymoon period of your relationship.
In life, we
encountered a lot of up and downs. But it is nevertheless, through
all these problems and obstacles that we learn to stand up on our
feet times and times again despite the falls we had, that made us
what we are today. If life were to be so smooth for us, we wouldn't
have grown and learn to truly appreciate it. The same goes for love;
if a relationship is ever so sweet and smooth, we wouldn't have
learn to really appreciate and cherish the love that is between
ourselves and our love. It is through the overcoming of all those
quarrels and problems, surviving them through together that we truly
know that we deeply cherish the love that is between both, strengthening
the relationship more than ever.
Be glad that
there is quarrel between both. It actually means that the both have
developed another step further in your relationship. It is only
when one is closer to you that a quarrel will then actually happen.
I don't suppose you will pick up a quarrel with your partner whom
you just started dating? You be just trying all out to please him
or her instead, wouldn't you?
But do however
treat each and every quarrel seriously, especially when the both
of you have just started. This is the time for you and your partner
to further understand each other more deeply, the time for you to
reflect on yourself and honestly think about the relationship. This
is the time for the relationship to be tested. A test of your love
for one another; whether this relationship is strong enough to withstand
any thunderstorm there may be. Well, a survival never fails to further
strengthen the relationship, truly cherishing each other ever more.
reasoning at the point of a quarrel. Most of the times it will only
make things worse, wait till both have cooled down. At the end of
the day, always make an effort to find out what actually went wrong.
Is it your fault? Talk to each other nicely, share your unhappiness;
let your partner know how you felt. A softer tone is always more
calming and pleasing to the ears. Your partner will usually be willing
to listen and to share his or her feelings with you too. Sometimes
it is out of too much care for one another that unwillingly trigger
off a quarrel between both?
wanted any quarrel. If you are at fault, please don't be a stubborn
donkey, you jolly well apologize and seek for your partner's forgiveness.
A word of sorry isn't really that hard to say out? There is nothing
ashamed to feel of, especially when with your love? Admit your fault,
a sincere apology would always be pleasing to the ears; most of
the time, harmony it will bring. Nonetheless, if your partner were
to apologize to you, you graciously accept it. Why start another
quarrel when you could end it? Well, there shouldn't be any overnight
grudges between couples.
Give each other
a good hug. "I love you dear, I am really so sorry to have hurt
you, please forgive me–" Now isn't that such a sweet ending? It
is usually through so that you understand each other better, cherishing
each other even dearly. Remember, love is a two-way communication.
It takes two happy persons, a happy you and your love to complete
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