Tips: The First Impression Matters
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Tips: The First Impression Matters
Ever had a love
at first sight encounter? Totally captured by her beauty the first
time you laid your eyes on her? Having sleepless nights thinking
about her? That first impression she left with you was sure astonishing
The first impression
you give plays a very important part in the blooming of a love relationship.
It determines the ever possibility of a development of the relationship.
Would you fall in love with someone whom you don't have any good
impression at all? The chances are, if you have a bad impression
of someone, it's very likely that the more you see him the more
you will dislike him. It's very hard to change one's thinking once
it is set in his mind. It will need a lot of time and regular communication
between both to break down that wall. So even if you can't impress
that special someone the very first time, make sure you will not
displease him or her. You can still work on your chances at a later
How can you
impress someone? Well, you may be the kindest soul, so helpful;
caring, fun loving and easy going whom all your friends enjoy your
presence. But does that someone know? No, if there are no chances
of both of you going out together, going out on a date, there's
no way he or she will ever get to know you more. You have got to
make that someone notice you, make your presence be known. You got
to first impress him or her!
humans tend to make judgment of another just by their very first
acquaintance with the person. Decisions were made almost at that
very moment of your job interview? Your physical appearance, the
way you talk, all your little behaviors you show, will decide what
kind of a person you are to them and this impression is going to
be set in their mind unless some thing or someone changes it.
So what can
you do? What should you take note of? First of all, your appearance
of course. Your physical appearance is the very the first thing
that catches a person's eyes. Put on your very best look! But do
however dress appropriately. If you are going for a ball, you will
not go in your jeans and tee and if you are going for a barbeque,
for heaven's sake, please don't go in your tuxedo or suits. Other
than your physical appearance, you have to also be careful with
all your little actions, the way you speak, the way you eat, the
way you look at others–
Look for chance
to strike a conversation with that someone. If not a personal one,
a little group conversation will be good. Try to participate in
the conversation, getting his or her attention. Look into the eyes,
drop him or her a nice warm smile. Let that someone know that his
or her presence is felt, being felt by you. A smile with the right
eye contact at the right timing can sometimes works wonder than
to words. But please, keep the conversations entertaining. If you
are bad with jokes, don't try it! Don't risk making yourself a clown.
For guys, show
your gentlemanliness, hold the door for her, offer seat to her;
offer her a ride home– But remember, be natural, take things slowly,
don't overdo it and scare her off the very first time.
For girls? Well,
you always got a little more privilege. Just be sure not to make
yourself look unfriendly, Smile– Look him in the eyes and drop him
a nice little sweet smile of yours. Do you know that your smile
is enough to melt a man's heart?
Well all these
little things count, your little efforts will pay off– Nonetheless,
it's always good to leave people with a good impression of yourself
rather than a bad one, isn't it?
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